Bring the fantasy up everytime she has had alcohol, because her mind is receptive to talking about the fantasy. Don't push it when she is sober.
The thought of extra-marital sex is first sown in her mind, then it grows like a seed in the garden, but her belief system has to change to "allow her to have her fantasy" when she is sober. She has to have 'permission", otherwise her subconscious mind will fire out all the reasons why it would be absolutely wrong to jump into bed with other guys.
Her subconscious mind will be re-programmed over time by the mind pictures she feels when she talks about getting fucked by another guy. She will grow more confident to take the next logical step once her imagination has snowballed to make her dream feel very real and desirable.
Alcohol is very similar to hypnosis - makes the conscious thinking mind "stand aside and stop interfering" - then suggestions of sex are accepted as "commands that seem logical and exciting", inhibitions switched off completely.
If she feels her marriage could be damaged, she will feel too scared to act; so she needs to know she has a monogamous husband, and a good way to prove that is to be caged and her to hold the key. When she lets you out of the cage, your sperm will be at its peak from no masturbation, and you will have wonderful sex with her and she will enjoy your extra excitement at "getting a fuck at last".
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