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09-02-2008, 01:14 AM
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Need advice on situation
First I have to say I love the site. I have been looking at it for a month or so.
That being said I need your advice. Here is where I am. I am 32 and my wife is 26. She is very beautiful. We have been married for around two years. I met her when she finished college. We moved to Atlanta this past year for my new job. Amber also works part time at a law firm. A little more information is need to understand Amber. When we met she was starting to settle down. She was really wild in high school and college. She has always been open about that. It has always been on my mind and we have talked about it a few times. I know about most of the guys she has been with. A few months ago she mentioned that two of the ladies she works with are getting a divorce. The other two were already divorced. I was a little worried, but she said I had nothing to worry about. I knew that but good to here it. The ladies started going out for drinks a few times a week. They asked Amber to go and she finally asked me if I was ok with it and said of course. She told me a little about what went on. The two newly divorced ladies were little wild. One hooked up with a guy and left. The other was all over a guy. The other two just danced a lot. She also danced with a few guys and got a few drinks. This all led to a discussion about being single. Amber admitted she liked it but was glad to be married. I pried on her to tell me more. She said she hated the waiting on phone calls and worrying if the guy liked her. A week later the same and she told me about the night and the other girls. That got me thinking and wondering what she was doing. That is when I realized it was turning me on. Now I know I want her to go further but not sure how to proceed. I have read a lot a lot of post to put it all together. I was hoping to get some feedback from my post. I will keep you all up to date on what is going on. Thanks. Jim You can also email me at jimtakingplung@yahoo.com I set it up just for this. 
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09-02-2008, 01:57 AM
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re: need advice on situation
jimtakingplung, with her wild schooling background and her current environment, I can easily see her taking a few lovers in the future. She's already opened up some to you by saying "she liked being single but glad to be married" which tells me she's trying to reassure herself that she's happy. If she's going out with these ladies drinking and dancing with guys (which means she's staying out kinda late at night) then its just a matter of time. You do know that booze lowers a woman's defenses, right? If you're wanting her to take the next step and get with another man, I'd flat out ask her if she would ever consider taking a lover if you gave her permission, and that it would turn you on. You may be surprised at what she says.
Personally I'd think a new marriage would want to avoid this kind of activity for a few years (5-10) as your marriage is just now developing. Many a marriage terminates in the first critical 5 years. But then again, my wife and I started dating in college and the first night I was with her she'd just screwed a friend of mine a few hours earlier. I actually got a charge out of the sloppy seconds, thus we have never really quit seeing other people, and we've been married 16 years as of last month. Keep the lines of communication open with her; let her know that you are willing to talk about anything that's on her mind. I wish you the best! 
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09-02-2008, 02:10 AM
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Form what little you said about your wife, it seems that she likes the fact that she is married to you and the security that comes with it.
However. it also appears that she might still long for the single life and the variety of men that come with. The fact that it is starting to turn you on is somthing you might want to mention to her at an opertune time in a non threatening, playful way, making it clear that you have no interest in other woman. That will plant the seed.: She can have the best of both worlds. Take it slow and see how it developes. Last edited by NYJOE; 09-02-2008 at 02:12 AM.
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09-02-2008, 03:43 AM
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Your wife sounds very promising. Here's a plan of action....
Jim,
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Best wishes to both of you— Custer Last edited by Custer Laststand; 09-02-2008 at 03:49 AM.
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09-06-2008, 02:51 PM
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Hi Jim
It sounds like you could be at the start of something interesting, but the advice so far has been good - keep the communications open and don't lose anything you value along the way. Would Amber allow you to post a picture of her? SENSIBLE comments from the members might turn you both on and prompt further discussion of what might be interesting and what is out of the question. I look forward to hearing more.
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09-06-2008, 09:50 PM
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A good article on the hotwife / cuckold husband phenomenon
Jimtakingplung,
An article by Cherry Lee (Ph.D.), which was published (so to speak) originally on her now-defunct "New Directions" websight, has been "reprinted" by "Scandalous Women" e-zine. It may be of interest to you and your wife. You can find it here: PLAYGIRL Scandalous Magazine cuckolding, Playgirl, fashion, beauty, health, sex advice for women —Custer Last edited by Custer Laststand; 09-06-2008 at 09:53 PM.
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09-13-2008, 06:14 PM
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Last night
Last weekend Amber went out with her friends from work to a club they go to sometimes. She said they had a good time, but didn't give me much detail.
Tuesday one of her friends came over with her new boyfriend. He is a cool guy that I knew so we grilled out. Joy, her friend, was talking about another girl that goes with them that is always hooking up with the college guys that hang out at the bar. She then mentioned this one guy that is always hitting on Amber. Amber got really red and told her to hush. I didn't push it while they were there. When they left we were cleaning up and I asked her about it. His name is Matt and she admitted he was cute. He had tried to kiss her a few times but she said that was it. They went out last night and before she left I told her to have fun and let loose. She said what does that mean. I said don't be a prude. She gave me a me a look and I said hey that is what Joy says about you. She said ya and Joy thinks I should screw Matt to. I said well you don't want to be a prude do you. She just slapped me with the towel she had. I laughed and said well just kiss him and she will back off. She just looked at me. I told her I was ok if she kissed him. It wasn't like she didn't still love me and hey maybe it would get her more drinks. She just laughed me off. They are going out again tonight and I don't know if I should say anything else. I haven't asked about last night yet and wanted to know what I should do. She is still sleeping since they got in late.
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09-13-2008, 08:05 PM
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Hi Jim, your wife will soon be pleasured by Matt’s cock, if it has not happened yet. As long as you get enough pussy, that can work out to be a hot live-style. If you have the room and the facilities, invite the whole gang of those women and their male companions including Matt to a cook out. Then you will meet Matt, see your wife’s taste, If the guy looks respectable and discrete and what you are up against. I don’t know how far you would like to let your wife go, you could also invite Matt alone and have a talk with him. But better to evaluate the guy first. You are young and you don’t need to hurry. By what you wrote, I am sure your wife is no prude and sooner or later she will get her pussy treated.
If she is going out tonight and you would let her know that you are OK with her screwing Matt you can bring that across very discretely. Just ask her if she has any condoms in her purse. She will then protest that you think she goes out to get laid. That’s when you can tell her that you love her that much that you are not mad if she gets pleasured. And anyways one does not know what happens and it is better to be prepared, then sorry
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09-13-2008, 09:40 PM
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Jimtakingplung,
Enser has given you some good advice — particularly his last paragraph. I second it. —Custer
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09-14-2008, 12:55 PM
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Any news JIm? How about showing a pic of Amber?
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