Wedding Rings - On or Off?

[ggfcpa]

My wife and I are headed to the casinos in Connecticut for the holiday weekend, and as a tiny step in the right direction, my wife has nervously agreed to spend some time at one of the casino bars, sitting by herself, to see what level of interest she can attract from the men in the bar. I'll be seated elsewhere in the bar watching the goings-on from a distance.

She told me that she would do this, but would not actively pursue the men, but if a man came up to her, to talk her up, ask her to dance, buy her a drink, etc. that she would participate. She's made it clear that the "etc." part does NOT include much beyond the talking, flirting, and dancing.

So, when she's seated alone at the bar, should she keep her engagement ring and wedding ring on, or should she take them off beforehand? It would be much more of a turn-on for me to watch all of this go down with the rings ON, but at the same time, I don't want to turn away any potential encounters because the guy sees the wedding rings and moves on to a more likely candidate. Or do the truly determined guys pay no attention to the rings?

Your thoughts on this?

Also, for those of you familiar with either of the CT casinos, I'd welcome your suggestions about which bars/restaurants there might be best for this.

Thanks.

[MacNfries]

As much as we'd all like to suggest she leave the wedding rings "ON", there are still a lot of respectable guys out there. Even I, being as liberal minded as I am, usually don't initiate conversations with married women at bars, unless I get some eye contact. Once the conversation gets going, most men aren't going to mind talking with a married woman. If you're firing for effect, have her take them off and put them on a necklace chain. That way she'll get hit on by single and married men, AND, it will stimulate conversation. Possibly she could have a made-up-story of how her husband isn't satisfying her. Mac

[debra48f]

Well a lot of guys actually dont even notice or think to look for rings in my experience. Or if they do they sort of joke about it but keep flirting. I think she should keep her rings on because it could be used as an easy exit should she become uncomfortable or feel threatened.

Believe me, ring or not, guys will hit on a woman, especially if she seems friendly and approachable.

[AlbanySearching]

One of the best things she can do is leave it ON, but conspicuously take it off and put it in her purse as she looks at a guy she's attracted to.

[cuckoldax]

ggf, trust me man a wedding ring will definately not be an issue if a hot guy is trying to bang your wife! (if shes hot)

[jbrowning]

leave it on a woman thats flirting with her ring on will get more play. they know shes just looking for fun not a lifelong comitment

[SrBilong]

Originally Posted by debra48f

. I think she should keep her rings on because it could be used as an easy exit should she become uncomfortable or feel threatened.
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I agree with this. And add me to the list of guys who don't even look for wedding rings, if she's hot i'll hit on her without consideration. Even if i did notice the ring it would probably just spark my curiosity and make me even more likely to talk to her.

[irfreak700]

Hell Man, it don't fuckin' matter.

Something about your question reminded me of a time a few years ago, when I was in West Palm Beach Florida, on business. I met this married girl, Jen - 33 yrs old, married with two kids. Went up to her room, had a few drinks and she disappeared into the bathroom for a while. When she came out, she had on lingerie bikini. I made my move and she completely rejected me. She made me stop eating her pussy, told me "this is wrong", and told me to leave.

She then removed the panties and walked out and stood on the balcony overlooking the beach. I'll never forget, this was Valentines Day, and there was a beautiful full moon hanging in the sky, with her full-moon ass in the foreground. I walked out, completely nude and slipped my cock in her from behind. I came inside her, went back in, put my cloths on and left.

Here's the point, married women are the best. They're not looking for a husband, they're not going to get pregnant and hit you up for child support, they typically don't have STDs, and they're not trying to trap you into marrying them. They just want some cock.

Married women account for at least forty percent of the women I've fucked in my adult life. They've all been great. So don't sweat the ring, man. There are plenty of guys like me who will gladly fuck a married woman.

Hope that helps.

[Saraha]

She could put her rings on her other hand so she can be "married and available".

Maybe you could arrange for a guy to hit on her, and give her compliments so she feels the ring of success very quickly in the evening. This will boost her self-esteem while she is feeling nervous.

Buying her a drink, talking, flirting and dancing is a great start, and will help her to feel MOST DESIRABLE in the eyes of men not her husband.

The drink will help to relax her so she can become talkative and quite flirty, so she might experience wetness between her thighs even if she does not LET THINGS GO FURTHER.

First time success will feed her mind over many months, as she looks back on what she did with your permission. This will take her to a new level from which she can springboard to "greater adventures" because she no longer wonders whether guys might find her attractive. SHE KNOWS THEY DO and it might then be possible to get her to watch a strip show or visit a swingers club out of curiosity of what couples get up to between the sheets. She can watch the first few times, then her body may want a piece of the action.

Try not to push her too fast, she needs to feel in control of each step forward or she will freak out and remember her wedding vows.

[cuckoldax]

keep us posted ggfca, let us know how it goes