Ankle Bracelets - How To Use

[jdconey]

When I first approached my wife about being a hotwife she thought I was nuts and and in so many words told me there was no way it would happen.
I covered my ass and told her I was just trying to spice up our love life.
She told me to find another way or find a new wife.

Anyway the fantasy world was as close as I was going to get and we would share fantasies. I brought up the fact that Anlke Bracelets are what married women use to signal other men that they are married and mess around.
She told me it was ridiculous and that she and a lot of women she knows wear them ocassionally and they are never hit on, she said they are just jewelry and nothing more.

I said "if you were sitting in a bar alone plenty of guys would approach you as being married and wanting sex but in the normal course of a the day they just fantasize about what could be, very few guys have the balls to approach a woman out in the open especially if she is with someone.

I told her I would like her to wear one all the time even if it didn't mean anything. I told her that I liked the way they looked and mentally it would make me feel like she was sexier and my hotwife. I told her that even if by chance it did attract some guys she could just tell them to get lost.

So in the interest of stimulating my mental image of her and stimulating our sex life she agreed. She assured me that the bracelet had no sexual meaning and even if it did wearing it was as far as she was going to go.

My plan was not to have other men notice her but to make her feel like a hotwife, it was a small step to get her doing something sexy but non-threatning.

So I would always tell her she looked hot with her anklet on and every once in awhile when we were together in a mall or restaurant I would point out a guy and say he was checking her out. Something like " see that guy that's just leaving, he was really looking you over, especially your legs" she would always reply that I was crazy or it was my imagination.

Over time (slow process) I slowly began changing my language from "that guys checking you out" to "that guy wants to get in your pants" to eventually saying and getting away with it " Look, there's another guy that would love to fuck you" Or "Wow, the way that guy checked you out I thought he was going to fuck you right here"

Understand that these comments wern't every day but maybe once a week also understand that if you hold your wifes arm close to you and stare at a guy he will look back at you and especially your wife.

Anyway this is getting to long so I'll just say that I started using some of these guys in our fantasies and between hearing about guys that wanted to fuck her because of her anklet and guys fucking her in our love making fantasies it became easy to make the jumo to reality.
She has been a hotwife for three years now and a guy actually complimented her ankle bracelet as an opening line in a bar.

[Custer Laststand]

Jdconey,

Originally Posted by jdconey

When I first approached my wife about being a hotwife, she thought I was nuts and and in so many words told me there was no way it would happen. I covered my ass and told her I was just trying to spice up our love life. She told me to find another way or find a new wife.

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Anyway the fantasy world was as close as I was going to get and we would share fantasies. I brought up the fact that ankle bracelets are what married women use to signal other men that they are married and mess around.
She told me it was ridiculous .... they are just jewelry and nothing more.

I told her I would like her to wear one all the time even if it didn't mean anything. ....
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So in the interest of stimulating my mental image of her and stimulating our sex life she agreed. She assured me the bracelet had no sexual meaning....
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So I would always tell her she looked hot with her anklet on and every once in awhile when we were together in a mall or restaurant I would point out a guy and say he was checking her out. ....

Over time (slow process) I slowly began changing my language from "that guys checking you out" to "that guy wants to get in your pants" to eventually saying and getting away with "Look, there's another guy that would love to fuck you" ....

Anyway, this is getting long so I'll just say I started using some of these guys in our fantasies and between hearing about guys that wanted to fuck her because of her anklet and guys fucking her in our love-making fantasies it became easy to make the jump to reality. She has been a hotwife for three years now and a guy actually complimented her ankle bracelet as an opening line in a bar.

Congratulations ! That's very cool . Clearly, you're a man with great patience who knows what he wants.... AND you have excellent insight into the psychology of your relationship with your wife, and are sensitive to her needs.

Having posted your "over-long" account (which is actually very concise), would you be willing to enlarge on how your wife felt after she fucked another man for the first time, then subsequently how she adapted to becoming a hotwife.... i.e., her subsequent feelings about it? Practically speaking, how does she go about finding other men to fuck, and about how often does she do it? And what are the effects on your marriage of her fucking other men...?

Thanks—
Custer

[Bradley]

My friend, you started out so easily, calmly with a great build up, and then bam, all of a sudden she's doing guys? We want to know; we want to hear. There are many guys on here who would kill to hear you story.